One Day....

this is my hubby checklist...here's the thing. I refuse to settle and i fear that people I know are settling for guys that they are with, because that's all they know.. I don't want it to be like that...We should guard our hearts and let Christ be the center of all of our relationships...and we should remember what we should look for in a guy.


There are several reasons that I made this list that I am about to post…
1. Well, sometimes I tend to forget what I am waiting for. I am not the type of girl who settles… and you shouldn’t be either.
2. I know that girls are forgetting what they deserve in a man…what they should be able to expect from a man.
3. I made this list to constantly remind myself that God should be the center of relationships… and if God is the center of my relationships then I will never have to settle for less than this in a man.

So….here it goes. My personal “hubby check list” (You may have other things that you may want…but this is what I want in a husband) And I am not going to lie…I have this hanging up in my room…haha

1. A man who first and foremost desires to know Gods heart and seeks his presence daily.
2. A man who realizes that God deserves all of His attention so He gives it all to God.
3. A man who is passionate in all of his works
4. A man who will protect my heart.
5. A man who is intelligent yet humble of Gods gifts to him.
6. A man who is forgiving and full of mercy.
7. A man who knows how to work hard, but doesn’t get lost in finding success.
8. A man with a heart for worship, unafraid to cry in the presence of the King.
9. A man who will wholeheartedly love me and our children.
10. A man of dignity and honesty.
11. A man who is wise discerning and can lead me spiritually and is sensitive to the spirit.
12. A man who is able to laugh at his mistakes and can ultimately move on.
13. A man who doubles as a comedian.
14. A man who is unafraid to push me to be better, and encourages in a time of need.
15. A man who will care about me and never forget to tell me how much he loves me.
16. A man who respects my body and values my purity.
17. A man with a heart for missions.
18. A man who embodies the fruits of the spirit and has a heart for serving the Lord.
19. A man who appreciates the little things.
20. A man who will love me as Christ loved the church.
21. A man with character who doesn't just make promises...but KEEPS them.

Okay….so I know that all of these qualities aren’t always going to be present because everyone is human, but they should strive for this daily…and WE must strive to be the woman worthy of this man. It’s time for the boys to STAND UP and be men…and it’s time for us as women to NOT SETTLE